Soo, my hair has NOT been on my good list lately. And, it's totally on me. I've been going through one of those crazy periods in life where you just become so enveloped with life that the time and energy put into taking care of your hair (among other things) just goes out the window.
"Forgetting", or just being plain too tired to oil daily (check). Sleeping on a cotton pillow case "unprotected" (double check). Those two things right there are my major faux pas, and not doing the above religiously leads to the hair above.
When they say this "loving your hair thing" is a learning process, it truly is. After almost 4 years of trying to maintain happy, healthy hair, there have been many uncountable days in between where this loving thing became too much work, and I just didn't feel like it.
But what can you do but get up and try again.
-Sophia